Monday 10 September 2018

Just Pray


This is the text of a sermon preached at Guildford Cathedral, Evensong on 9th September. The readings were Exodus 14:5-end and Matthew 6:1-18 leading to a particular focus on the Lord's Prayer.




If you tuned into Radio 4’s  Just a Minute this lunch time, you would’ve heard Paul Merton attempting to talk for 60 seconds without hesitation, repetition or deviation on the subject “Abandon Ship”.  

He began: “The Titanic had a band on ship and they were playing tunes as the ship sank into the murky waters below…’. He paused and Julian Clarey buzzed in with 51 seconds to go.



Merton, as a satirical comic, is adept at humorous word play, even in the face of tragedy.  Tragedy feels particularly acute when we are on the cusp of new possibilities; when it feels as if freedom is within our grasp; when we delight in the scale of human ambition; when hopes are thwarted by forces beyond our control.

Titanic encapsulated those feelings and in the hands of James Cameron it becomes an epic romance and disaster movie staring Kate Winslet and Leonardo DiCaprio as Rose and Jack. They transgress boundaries of wealth, class and the constraints of an arranged marriage as Celine Dion sings: ‘my heart will go on’.


Southampton’s Titanic Story conveys the realities behind this Hollywood blockbuster: hundreds of head shots of the people who lived, worked, traveled and died together on one fateful night.

The meticulous order of a two person birth is recreated: neatly folded linen on compact bunk beds - hat and gloves casually set aside. 


The devastating disorder of the ship breaking apart is recreated: a light and sound installation of gloom, water, and dawn light - furniture breaking up.

The words of eye-witnesses bubble up across the screen; they fade and drift of away, these echoes of memory, disbelief and trauma.  Their speech tries to piece together all that was breaking apart: lives, dreams, relationships, Titanic herself.


One survivor says:
We all said our prayers there, the Lord’s Prayer, altogether.


We reach for these words when there is nothing left to say; when we cling to another in heartrending grief. 

The words Jesus taught his disciples intersects with our lives; we reflect on the meanings given to each word and phrase, listening with the ear of the heart for what consoles and challenges. 

It is said with hope and trepidation at the beginning of a day; in exhaustion and thanksgiving at its end. It’s familiar rhythms lending us an inner stability.

It is the prayer which teaches us how to pray. It is a living text. Simple enough to be memorised by children; broad enough to express the depth of our longings; ordinary enough to name our basic needs; ingrained enough to be recalled when dementia means we can no longer remember who we are; profound enough to sustain a lifetime of praying.

Last year, the Church of England launched a 57 second film called Just Pray (which your can watch here):

Our Father in heaven: as Archbishop Justin walks though Lambeth Palace Gardens.

Hallowed be your name: as a young man places flowers on a grave.

Thy Kingdom Come: as a first responder is called to the scene of an accident.

Thy will be done: as a guy lifts free weights.

On earth as it is in heaven: as a farmer feeds his cattle.



Give us this day our daily bread: sung by a gospel choir and spoken before a meal.

Forgive us our trespasses: as a computer train speeds into London.

As we forgive those: in a men’s group in a gym.

Who sin against us: by a woman carrying private grief.

And lead us not into temptation: as a policeman responds to the next call.

Deliver us from evil: as the Community of St Anselm share in worship.

For thine is the Kingdom: as an adult is baptised.

The power and glory: at a school assembly.
For ever and ever: at the end of a wedding.

Amen: said and sung, for this prayer is for everyone.

We add our voices today: in the silence of our hearts; in the music written by Clucas: Our Father.

Jesus is inviting us to stand where he stands: to put ourselves in the presence of God, with the Spirit of his Son in our hearts; and to cry Abba! Father! He invites us to ponder the depth of love divine, all love’s excelling.

He invites us into a vision of a world infused with the light of God.

In that light, we ask for what we need: for mercy, protection and forgiveness; for daily bread, for strength and sustenance; for grace to bear the needs of others and humility for others to support us.

Prayer of this sort demands a kind of ‘forgetfulness’: a letting go of our overpowering sense of self; with all the literal and metaphorical filters we might apply to our appearance and self-presentation. The ‘selfie’ we captures a moment but airbrushes our all that is not perfect.

Jesus cautions the hypocrisy of living preoccupied by our image; of living to be noticed. He cautions against turning acts of generosity into attention seeking; or making our inner spiritual lives into a spectator sport.

Instead we are invited to make space and time away from distraction and competition. To find a private place where our desires, emotions and needs can be held in peace.

This is a practical way of praying: noticing what gives life; and what drains our energy; to discern glimpses of goodness; to name hurts or selfishness; for our lives to be shaped by God’s love; allowing heaven to be known on earth.



Praying these words, expands our imaginations with generosity; increasing our capacity to be vulnerable, resilient and compassionate. Letting go of conflict and rivalry; living out the words that Jesus taught be seeking justice and reconciliation.

Exodus is a stark reminder of the way in which moments of liberation can mingled with the hardening of hearts, mixed motives and anxiety about the future. The flight towards freedom confronts the pursuit of power.  There are some injustices which are so systemic and horrific that putting them right demands humility, penitence and a radical change of culture.

The Lord's Prayer is not easy; it is hard be liberated from bonds of indebtedness;  forgiveness can’t be a demand or a crude bargain to just ‘get on with life’; rather it takes us to the heart of truthful recollection, in incremental steps of release.

Tonight we are invited afresh not to learn about it, but to pray it.

To pray for mercy and healing, vision and strength; allowing the Spririt to breathe through each word and phrase.


Just pray. 

Today, this week, this month: on the train, before sleep, as the kettle boils; at the gym, before music practice, as you do the online shop.

We all said our prayers there, the Lord’s Prayer, altogether.

Our Father...

Who art in heaven.... hallowed be thy name

Thy Kingdom Come

Thy will be done...

... on earth...

as it is in heaven.

Give us this day our daily bread.

And forgive us our trespasses...

as we forgive those... who trespass against us.

And lead us not into temptation...

but deliver us from evil.

For thine is the Kingdom...

the power...

....and the glory.

Now...

... and forever. 

Amen.



© Julie Gittoes 2018