Wednesday 5 September 2018

Disgust, holiness and hospitality


This is the text of a sermon preached at Guildford Cathedral on Sunday, 2nd September. A couple of years ago a friend recommended Richard Beck's book "Unclean"; and the themes of disgust, holiness and hospitality resonated with the questions about the law raised by the following texts: Deuteronomy 4:1-2, 6-9; James 1:17-end; Mark 7:1-8, 14-15,21-23


It’s 19th April 1987. A 25 year old woman visits a London hospital. She’s perhaps the most photographed fashion icon of her generation; but the image captured on this day isn’t remembered because of her striking blue dress.

Instead it continues to be remembered because it broke down barriers of stigma. Princess Dianna had looked a nameless AIDS patient in the eye, smiled and shook his hand without wearing gloves.
Photo: Princess Diana shaking hands with an AIDS patient ...




Research had demonstrated a few years previously that HIV AIDS couldn’t be transmitted by person to person touch. However, it was this ordinary gesture of human interaction, in front of the world’s media, which began to challenge ignorance, misunderstanding and fear.

A nurse at the London Middlesex Hospital said, “If a royal was allowed to go in shake a patient's hands, somebody at the bus stop or the supermarket could do the same”.

Today, HIV-positive people live full, healthy, loving lives, serving in professions from lawyers and haulage drives. Nevertheless, HIV remains an urgent global challenge with more than a million people dying from AIDS in 2015; and many more being infected, orphaned or losing their livelihood or social status.

HIV-AIDS induced fear and exclusion because it touches on triggers of disgust outlined by the psychologist Richard Beck in his book entitled “Unclean”: sex and bodily fluids, sickness and contagion, contamination and death. 

He explores the visceral reactions of disgust and avoidance, but this  is more than an exercise in psychological analysis. He also explores what it means for those patterns to be redeemed.  Beck grapples what it means for God to desire mercy and not sacrifice; for Jesus to eat with tax collectors and sinners; or for the church to draw boundaries of inclusion and exclusion. 

He sets this out as two impulses: “one impulse - holiness and purity - erects boundaries, while the other impulse - mercy and hospitality - crosses and ignores those boundaries”. 

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The commandments in Deuteronomy, negotiate these impulses of holiness and mercy. They were teaching about giving honour to God in worship, delighting in sabbath rest and by shunning forms idolatry; and observing them all to strengthened community through giving honour to parental and martial relationships; outlawing false witness, theft and murder.

The people of Israel were called to be a distinctive community; to be wise and discerning. It’s not surprising that as they encountered other nations and traditions debate arose as to how to guard, teach and live out these ordinances.  What was allowable on the sabbath? Should wealth be set aside for God or family obligations? What about food was safe or unclean? What about sex, sickness and death?

Teachers, priests and scribes didn’t the people to forget. They didn’t want to take anything away from the commandments; but diligence in observing them led to more  burdensome detailed laws were added in.

In Mark’s gospel we glimpse part of that ongoing debate. The scribes and Pharisees have continue to challenge Jesus about the nature of purity and the keeping of the law. Elsewhere, this division is focused on human need such as hunger, illness or isolation; in part Jesus exposes our vulnerability and kindles a desire for mercy; for loving embrace.

In order to remain ceremonially clean, the priests had to be careful about what they ate or touched. Over time such prescriptions were observed more widely. So they attack Jesus and his disciples - for eating with unclean hands.

As Jesus’ explores elsewhere in the parable of the good Samaritan, the impulse for purity set up boundaries which made it hard to fulfill the impulse for mercy.  Today, he challenges the hypocrisy of getting things out of proportion. By focusing on the minutiae of the tradition, Jesus accusers risked failing to fulfill the will of God which the commandments embodied.

He goes on to describe with a bluntness, which may evoke an element of disgust, the way in which food is eaten and digested, asking: how can something which passes through our bodies be a source of defilement?  

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Instead we are to examine our own hearts and consider what human nature is capable of: envy, deceit and adultery; greed, pride and stupidity; anger, self-indulgence and deceit.

No wonder the psalmist cries out: “Create in me a clean heart, O God; and put a new and right spirit within me” (Ps 51).  As my spiritual director put it. We have to guard our hearts. We guard our hearts from being misled by the overwhelming power of sexual chemistry which plays on our loneliness, and desire for intimacy.

We also have to guard our hearts when we seek self-advancement at the expense of others; when our guilt or failure tempts us to be less than honest, eating away at trust within community; when our envy, conscious or not, diminishes others; when our frustration drives us to despair rather than facing the challenging but creative conversation.

It is because of the frailty of these human hearts, that God’s only begotten Son, Jesus Christ, came from the intimacy of his Father’s heart to be with us. To be with us in the fleshly and messy reality of our lives. Love draws near in our bodily lowliness and prideful hearts.  
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As the poet, W B Yeats puts it: “Love had pitched his mansion in / The place of excrement; / For nothing can be sole or whole / that has not been rent”. It takes our proximity with birth and intimacy, illness and death to realise that that is where love is; in the midst of nappies and bedpans. And God goes there
What then does it mean for our fragile, sensual, muscular, ageing, graceful and imperfect bodies for the Word to become flesh? Out of his fullness, we have all received endless grace. The law was given by Moses; grace and truth came through Jesus Christ”. We are redeemed by grace; by God becoming one of us.

Jesus touched the sick with healing love and restored the dying to life; he embraced those made ‘other’ through sexual exploitation or mental distress; he ate with those whose hearts were open. He was betrayed and abused; cursed and humiliated. He died. And in dying broke death’s power; in his risen life is forgiveness, mercy and love.

The aspiration of our cathedral community to be warm-hearted is an expression of the commandments to love: to love God and neighbour. We cannot do that in our own strength; it is God’s Spirit who warms our hearts, kindling that flame of love. As James writes, all our generous acts of giving come from above; through grace our creatureliness bears the truth of God’s image.  The fullness of life in God is revealed in a fruitful life.

James uses language which is vivid and physical. He senses that the good that we do begins with what is planted in our hearts, that God’s word of love.  We are to be quick and attentive in our listening; but slow in our speaking and our anger.

Doing what we hear is mediated in a multitude of loving gestures.  The gentleness of which he speaks is not a soft option. It means caring for orphans and widows; protecting the vulnerable; listening to the dispossessed;  showing compassion to the stranger. Seeking what is just in this world - walking with humility before God.
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No human being, whatever age, should feel alone. As Christians we don’t offer simple answers to complex problems. But we do commit to being alongside those who feel unloved, isolated, scared; those who self-harm, who’re grief stricken and unable to cope. As the Children’s Society tagline puts it:  We listen. We support. We act. 

In our workplaces and homes, may we who are united in prayer and the breaking of bread bring hope and hospitality to others. The impulse for holiness is made real in the impulse of mercy; breaking down barriers of stigma and despair.


© Julie Gittoes 2018